I SAMUEL 18:1-6; 19:1-7; 20:1-17
INTRODUCTION
A sign read, “There is no
limit to the good that a man can do, if he does not care who gets the credit.”
If you really do not care
who gets the credit, then you can just enjoy yourself and do all kinds of good
deeds for others. Just be glad that it is done, and do not worry about who gets
the credit on earth, because your heavenly Father knows.
I.
FRIENDSHIP FOR LIFE
If you do not care who wears the crown or gets the credit
in the Christian life, God will take you to heights you have never dreamed. The
biblical character in the Old Testament, who played a positive supportive role
in the life of a leader, was Jonathan. I have not heard many messages on
Jonathan. I have heard several messages on both King Saul and David, but none
on Jonathan. If Jonathan were with us today, he would say to us, “you live in
an age when winning at all costs and looking out for number one are exalted
virtues.” The words of Proverbs 20:6 could have been written today: “Many a man
proclaims his own loyalty, But who can find a trustworthy man?” We have
forgotten what it means to serve others or exhibit true loyalty. In such a time
as this, what Jonathan would tell us becomes doubly important: Support a Leader and Save a Nation or
Community, whichever applies to your situation.
Jonathan has credibility like no one
else in the Bible to deliver such a message to us today. While other people in
David’s life were trying to keep him down by putting limitations on him,
Jonathan did the opposite. He lifted David up and strengthened him so that he
could meet his trials and defeat his oppressors.
Jonathan and David became good friends soon after David killed
Goliath. The Scripture says, and I read from 1 Samuel 18:1-5. From that time
on, Jonathan was willing to do anything to help David, and that was good
because David would need a lot of help. Every potential leader or leader needs
a lot of help from those who do not care about who gets the credit. Such persons
are rare to find in our competitive society.
If you read the text carefully, you
would find out that Jonathan became one in spirit with David (18:1). This was
understandable because David and Jonathan had much in common. They were both
courageous and capable young warriors who possessed profound faith in the Lord.
Both had initiated faith-motivated attacks against militarily superior
Philistines that had resulted in great victories for Israel. Jonathan loved
David (v. 3). That love inspired him to make a covenant with David, one that
was expressed with extravagant gifts to the new celebrity. The fact that
Jonathan gave David the garb and armaments originally reserved for the heir to
Saul’s throne clearly possesses symbolic and thematic significance. In an
apologetic vein, it also provides an explanation of how David came to possess
these coveted tokens of power.
David was taken out of his comfort
zone. The day David killed Goliath everything changed in his life. He went from
unknown boy to hero and from shepherd to leader. David, a shepherd boy and a
nobody, became a member of the royal household and as such did not prove
disappointing. Nevertheless, the affection and the favor that David found in
the sight of King Saul became short-lived. The song of celebration and victory
the women of Israel sang for David put him on the wrong side of the king: “Saul
has slain his thousands, And David his ten thousands.” King Saul became jealous
of David and constantly tried to destroy him.
From this time forward, David’s life
was a roller coaster. One moment David was leading the army of Israel and the
next moment he was hiding from the same army because Saul was deploying it to
try to kill him.
David faced many severe challenges.
His assignments from the king were difficult and the expectations of the people
were high. Without help, he would not survive. Furthermore, after witnessing
four attempts on his life in one day, David certainly had no reason to doubt
Saul’s determination to kill him. Yet, to escape the king’s attacks, David
would have to abandon the two most significant people in his life, his best
friend Jonathan and the wife of his youth, Michal. Even if he were to escape
and live, would life be worth living under those circumstances?
Hoping he was wrong, but fearing he
was right, David “fled from Naioth at Ramah and went to Jonathan (20:1) to
discuss the matter further. Perhaps the fault was David’s; perhaps he had
committed some “transgressions” or “sin” against King Saul. If so, then, he
could repent, make reparations, and end the relentless attacks; his life of
love and friendship could return to him once more.
David’s melancholic musings seemed
nonsense to Jonathan, and he rejected the conclusions. If anyone should know
Saul’s thought processes, it was Jonathan, for Saul did not “do anything, great or small, without
confiding in Jonathan (20:2).
However, David who had “wisdom like that of an angel of God” to
“discern good and evil” (2 Sam. 14:17, 20), saw what Jonathan could not. The
cold facts of the situation pointed to only one conclusion: Saul was
passionately determined to kill David. In fact, at that moment David was “only
a step” ahead of “death.” Yet, Saul had kept the evil scheme a secret from
Jonathan so that his son would not “be grieved” (20:3, 34).
Jonathan, like David, had much to lose
if the accusations against Saul proved true; he would forgo the companionship
of his best friend and experience alienation from his father. In an effort to
put the matter to rest, he agreed to cooperate with David in the investigation.
Whatever plan David might put forth Jonathan would follow it. Therefore, at
every turn, Jonathan helped David. This made all the difference for David, the
nation, and the people.
David, the man who the Old Testament
describes frequently as possessing success-induced wisdom, had an ingenious
ploy to force King Saul to reveal his real intentions toward David. The plan
that David put forth was simple, yet effective. If proactively, safeguarded
David by sequestering him, and it avoided any use of force. Granted, Jonathan
had to lie to his father about why David would not show up at the royal court
and supper for two days. Realize that Jonathan was doing this to save and
preserve innocent life.
Jonathan’s role would be very complicated.
Most of the time during the next two days, he was to be merely a passive
observer of his father. However, when his father commented on David’s absence,
Jonathan was to come out with a persuasive, though false, excuse to account for
David’s empty chair at the meals. After that he was to note his father’s
reaction: a positive response to Jonathan’s words would mean that David “is safe” (20:7); a hostile response
would mean that Saul was “determined to
harm” David.
II. SEEING THE
BIG PICTURE
The question you need to ask is this: “What empowered
Jonathan to put David ahead of himself and serve him? After all, Jonathan was
the prince of Israel and the rightful heir to the throne. Nevertheless, the
first time he met David; Jonathan understood David’s potential (unlike King
Saul, David’s brothers, or even David’s father). Jonathan saw the big picture.
If you see the big picture, you stop being in competition with God ordained
leader and become a supporter and a team player to save the community where God
has placed you.
Jonathan’s big picture thinking
allowed him to see himself from the right perspective. The first great
advantage of seeing the big picture is being able to judge yourself
realistically. If you overestimate your value, you may do things just to feed
your ego. That was King Saul’s problem.
If you underestimate your value, you may become discouraged and neglect
doing the things you can do. That is why many Christians are sitting on the
sidelines, while a few are doing the work of the Lord. However, the big picture
gives you an accurate picture of yourself. When Jonathan saw David after he
killed Goliath, the prince realized that David had the potential to be a better
leader than his father or himself. Therefore, Jonathan realized that he was not
the best person to ascend to the throne. Jonathan had the realistic evaluation
of his gifts and potential as a leader. He was content to play a supportive
role to a highly gifted leader to save his nation. Such a conclusion comes with
discernment, prayer, and contentment of life. Jonathan reminds me of Andrew,
who was a brother of Peter and one who brought Peter to Jesus. Andrew was
content to be a team player and supporter, while Peter rose to leadership.
Jonathan’s
big picture thinking allowed him to see others from the right perspective. When
Jonathan saw himself realistically, he was free to treat others as they
deserved. That meant preserving David’s life and serving him. Jonathan knew
that helping David would benefit the kingdom more than promoting himself as
Israel’s future ruler. And while King Saul, his father, continually tried to
manipulate situations to eliminate David as a threat to him, Jonathan worked
hard to help his friend. He strategically invested his time and energy for
David’s success. Jonathan saw himself as a kingmaker and he worked hard at it.
The problem with our world is that everybody wants to be a king, but nobody
wants to be a kingmaker, or a subject of a king. The problem with the church
and contemporary Christianity is that there are more who want to undermine
spiritual leaders than to help the work of the Lord to succeed.
Jonathan’s
big picture thinking allowed him to do what is right from God’s perspective.
Often our personal ambition clouds God’s direction for our lives. Nonetheless,
Jonathan’s grasp of the big picture helped him to understand what God desired.
Even though it did not benefit him personally, Jonathan obeyed God and did not
whine about his rights. The problem with today’s Christians is the attitude
that says, “What is in it for me?” Many people have become Christians with a
consumer mentality. Their main goal is, “what can the Lord do for me; what can
the pastor do for me; what can the church do for me?” There should be a change
of focus and attitude. The objective of every believer should be, “What can I
do for the Lord; what can I do to help the pastor; what can I do to help the
church realize her vision and mission.” Your purpose in the Christian life
should not be what I could get but what can I give; what can I contribute to
the success of the Lord’s work. We need more Jonathans today in the Lord’s
work. Moses had his Joshua and Caleb; Elijah had his Elisha; Daniel had
Shadrack, Meshack, and Abednego; Peter had Andrew; Paul had Barnabas; Billy
Graham has Cliff Barrows and Bev. Shea. The greatest need in a leader’s life is
to have a Jonathan beside him/her.
Jonathan
gave up his own future on the throne to serve the rightful person who would
take it. The result? The reign of David was the greatest in Israel’s history.
Due to his loyalty and deep commitment to David’s future, Jonathan ended up
saving the entire nation of Israel from destruction.
III.
WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT
This is
what Jonathan is saying to you: “Only when you see what is important will you
be willing to do the seemingly unimportant. I did not serve David because I
lacked potential. I look back on my life; my greatest joy was helping David
succeed to the throne. Remember, it takes many kingmakers to make a king!”
Every time
you encounter people with potential, you must make a choice. You can either
hurt them or help them. Many Christians today choose to hurt leaders rather
than to help them succeed. Jonathan’s father, King Saul chose to hurt David.
What would have happened if Jonathan’s father had helped David? King Saul could
have spent his time on productive instead of destructive things. The kingdom
would have united instead of divided. Jonathan’s relationship with his father
would have improved greatly. In addition, God’s blessings would have continued
on his father’s leadership. A legacy of leadership would have been passed down
to David. Jonathan goes on to say to you: “Sadly, in the end, my father did not
hurt David; he hurt himself.”
Here is the
good news: “As a supporter you share in your leader’s success.” When you help a
leader, you share in whatever he/she achieves. As I helped my friend David, I
knew that I was serving God and whatever benefits the nation of Israel received
came about in part through my efforts. The same is true for you. You do not
have to be on the front lines or the lime light, to share in the rewards or to
make a great impact. Support your leader and you can help save your community
and nation.
Prayer
Sovereign
Lord and King please empower our church family to see the big picture so we may
know our individual place and are glad to be a part of something great. Help us
to cultivate the right attitude toward the potential and success of others, and
possess a servant’s heart that receives great joy in adding value to leaders.
Amen.
Happy New Year.