1 JOHN 4:12-16
No one has seen God at any
time; if we love one another, God abides in us, and His love is perfected in
us. By this we know that we abide in Him and He in us, because He has given us
of His Holy Spirit.
We have seen and testify that the Father
has sent the Son to be the Savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is
the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. We have come to know and have
believed the love which God has for us. God is love and the one who abides in
love abides in God, and God abides in him (NASB).
INTRODUCTION
A little
boy came running into the house after playing outside. His mother stopped him
and asked what was on his hand. He replied, “Oh, just a little mud.” His mother
then asked if he was planning on getting it off his hand. He thought for a
moment and said, “Sure, Mom.
I’ll just wipe it off with my other hand.” There was only one problem
with the plan, one dirty hand plus one clean hand equals two dirty hands.
Many people are like that
little boy; they see the evil and wrongs in their life and think they can make
themselves clean by bringing the good in their life to bear on the problem. But
it doesn’t work that way. We all need a way to be made morally and spiritually
clean, and we will never succeed in doing it ourselves. The only solution is to
be found in the blood of Jesus Christ, which cleanses us from all sins.
I.
THE FUNCTION OF LOVE V. 12
The
kind of love the apostle John is discussing fulfills two functions in our lives
as believers. First, it is the visible evidence that God dwells in us. As I
shared with you from 1 John 4:7-11, agape is exclusively Christian word. It was
not used in any other literature besides the New Testament. Agape is
unconditional love; it is a self-giving love. It is loving a person without
expecting anything in return. It is love demonstrated to a person regardless of
the person’s behavior. In other words, it is a kind of love shown to a person
whether he deserves it or not.
What
John is conveying to us is this; you and I have never seen God physically, but
when we love one another unconditionally, and are thus in spiritual accord with
God, then God is in us as really as if we have seen Him. Wherever His love is,
God is present. In other words, when we show the selfless love of God to others
we are proving that indeed we are the true children of God and genuine
representatives of God. But if you suppose that you love God, but leave people
aside, your love is a sheer delusion. “Our love for God reaches Him only when
it is expressed through love for our neighbors” (Alexander Ramsey).
The only way in which the people of this world can ever see God is as
they see Him living in and through God’s people. And who are God’s people?
Those who have been saved through the blood of Jesus Christ are God’s people.
Christians are the people of God. Those who are born again of the Holy Spirit
are the people of God. Now get this: in John 1:18, John teaches that it is
Christ who has declared the invisible God. That is, Christ has made God
visible. But here, to our amazement, John teaches that the unseen God, the
invisible God, who was once revealed in His Son Jesus Christ, is now revealed
in His people if and when we love one another.
Second,
when we practice love, God’s love is perfected in us (12b). This is what John
is teaching: “When we as Christians practice love for one another it is evidence
that the goal of God’s love has been reached in us. Brotherly love is God’s
love fulfilling its end and bearing fruit.”
Some
Christians love to be with others. They befriend strangers easily and always
are surrounded by many friends. Others are shy or reserved. They have a few
friends, but they are uncomfortable talking to people they don’t know or
mingling in crowds. Shy people don’t have to become extroverts in order to love
others. John is not telling us how many people we are to love, but how much to
love the people we already know. Our job is to love the people God has given to
us faithfully, whether they are two or four hundred of them. If God sees that
we are ready to love others, He will bring them to us. That is the best way a
church can grow. Therefore open your eyes, mind, and heart and see the people
God is bringing to you so that you can love them with the love of Christ.
No matter how shy or bashful you are, you don’t have to be afraid of
the commandment to love. God never leads you beyond the sufficiency of His
love. No matter how bashful you are, God is willing to enable you love others
into His kingdom. When you love others, God’s love is seen in you because your
love is God’s love imparted to you by His Spirit.
II.
THE EVIDENCE OF SALVATION V. 13
Verse 13 begins with the
phrase, “By this we know,” or “Hereby we know.” The phrase states, Here is the
proof that, the proof of what? The proof that we abide in Christ and He in us.
This verse says that the presence of the Holy Spirit within you certifies the
indwelling of God. The gift of the Holy Spirit is an evidence of salvation (Rom.
8:9). Verse 13 is closely tied to verse 12. In verse 13, John is saying that
the Holy Spirit, who abides in you, is a witness of God’s presence in your
life. The Holy Spirit is the third Person of the Trinity. The Holy Spirit in
your heart is the seal and assurance of your union with God. It was St.
Augustine of Hippo who said, “Do we want to know what Christ has given to us
from His Spirit? Ask your heart. If it is full of love, you have the Spirit. Do
you want to know that the Spirit dwells in you? Ask St. Paul." “Now hope does not
disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the
Holy Spirit who was given to us” (Romans 5:5). The simple truth is that the
natural person can neither believe nor love. To put it in another way, if you
have not given your life to Jesus, you can neither believe in Him nor love
others. In your fallen and unredeemed state you are both blind and selfish. It
is only by the grace of the Holy Spirit, who is the Spirit of truth and whose
first fruit is love (Gal. 5:22),
that you and I ever come to believe in Christ and to love others. The presence
of the Holy Spirit in you is the assurance of salvation. He assures you that
you are a child of God. When Satan comes with his accusation, and says look at
you; how can you be a child of God? It is the Holy Spirit who assures you that
you are the child of God.
III. THE CONFESSION OF CHRIST
AS SON OF GOD VV. 14-15
John and fellow apostles
were eyewitnesses of Jesus Christ as God’s gift to the world. Here again John
is saying, “We beheld,” or “we saw.” The pronoun “we” is emphatic. Not only did
they see Jesus, they also bear witness that the heavenly Father has sent His
Son to be the Savior of the world. Jesus did not originate from Bethlehem. He originated
from heaven. Jesus’ life did not begin on the planet earth; He existed with the
Father before the foundation of the world. As a matter of fact, He was the
Agent of creation. The world for whose sake the Father sent the Son was not
righteous. The term “world” as used in this context means “sinful society,
estranged from God and under the dominion of the evil one.” Jesus came to
rescue the world from sin and Satan. Jesus came to redeem you and me from the
power of sin and the tyranny of Satan who held us captive. You and I were
pinned down by the force of sin and the stronghold of Satan, but Jesus has set
us free. The moment you said yes to Jesus, the moment you opened your heart to
Him, Jesus became your Lord and Savior. The verb “sent” is a perfect tense,
which points not only to the historical event of the sending, but to the
purpose and result of it, namely the salvation of the world. With this
statement all three of the Apostle John’s tests are implied. The first test is
the doctrinal test. It was the Son Himself whom the Father sent. Second, the
social test: God’s love is seen, revealed, manifested in the sending of His
Son, thus obliging or compelling us to love each other. The third test is
ethical. If Christ came to be our Savior, we must forsake the sins from which
He came to save us. Therefore, if you claim to be a Christian and you continue
to practice the sins from which Christ has set you free, then you better
evaluate your claim. Why? Because when the Son sets you free, you will be free
indeed (John 8:36). This is not just a platitude; it is a fact. You see, the
historical mission of Jesus in the salvation of the world took place more than two
thousand years ago and its influence and effects are still going on. Let me draw
an analogy. Here in the United
States when the Emancipation Proclamation
document was signed into law many years ago, all the slaves were set free and
its influence and results are still going on today. The same thing happened on
the cross when Jesus said, “It is finished.” Jesus sealed the spiritual
emancipation proclamation document not by the stroke of a pen, but rather by
the shedding of His own precious blood for you and me. Therefore, anyone who
receives Jesus as personal Lord and Savior becomes a child of God. You no
longer belong to Satan if you have placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ.
You have traded places and you have changed masters. In verse 15 the news even
gets better. John says, “Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God
abides in him, and he in God.”
This is a doctrinal
test, but let me explain something here before we continue. The word
“confesses” is the Greek word homologese.
That word is an aorist tense (like our English past tense). That word cannot be
rendered precisely in English. John is referring neither to a future
confession, but to a single and decisive public confession, the time of which
is unspecified. In the Bible the word “confession” is used in two different
ways. It is used in a negative way to indicate confession of sins, and it is
used in a positive way to mean confession of Christ. To confess means, "To
say the same thing." To confess means to agree with God about something or
somebody. This is what John is saying: There was a defined moment and day in
your life when you believed in your heart and confessed with your mouth that
Jesus is the Son of God. At that moment and day, you may not be able to recall
with precision, but when you made that confession, the Spirit of God came to
abide in you and you in God. This is why I have problem with people who say, “I
have been a Christian all of my life, but you don’t see any change in their
life. You may have been born into a Christian family. Your parents might have
carried you to church since you were an infant, but if you cannot recall a day
in your life when you gave your life to Jesus Christ, then I submit to you that
you are religious and a church-goer, but not a Christian. To confess Jesus as
the Son of God is to be born again from above. For without the Holy Spirit’s
initiative you cannot call Jesus, “Lord.” I don’t want to ruin your day, but
that is the truth.
When
I attended a Presbyterian Church because I went to a Presbyterian school, I
knew deep in my heart that I wasn’t saved. Why? Because I had not confessed
Jesus as my Lord and Savior. Probably I would have asked Jesus to come into my
heart, had somebody shared the gospel with me. In those days church attendance
was obligatory and a formality. But later in my adult years when a couple came
and shared Christ with me, I was reluctant, but finally I gave my life to
Christ. I may not be able to give you the exact date, but I can go back to that
day when I confessed Jesus as the Son of God. I would like for you to think
about what John is saying, because the devil has duped and deceived many people
who claim to be Christians, but in reality they are religious and churchgoers.
You can be a faithful churchgoer and end up in hell, because you never gave
your life to Christ.
It is the apostles who first preached or
proclaimed that Jesus is the Son of God. They walked with Him. They saw Him.
They held Him. They heard His profound teachings. They saw His miracles.
Therefore, they were eyewitnesses to Christ. Their testimony is necessary, but it
does not compel assent. It is the power of the Spirit of God who enables you to
confess that Jesus is Christ who has come in the flesh (4:2). Potentially Jesus
is the Savior of the world, but believing and confessing Him is a part of the
plan of God by which Christ becomes your actual Savior. There are many people
in churches today whom Jesus is their potential Savior and not their actual
Savior, because they have not confessed Him in real sense.
In the first century, to confess Christ as Lord was a costly price to
pay. Even today in some parts of the world like China,
Indonesia, Sudan, India, and others to confess Christ
as Lord can cost your life. Some people pay a great price to follow Jesus
Christ and that is worth it all because Jesus Himself paid the ultimate price.
He died in your stead. He died for you and me. Therefore, if you live in the United States
but take Jesus for granted, then you would have yourself to blame. Can you
trace a day in your life when you confessed or acknowledged Jesus as your Lord
and Savior? Do you have the witness of the Holy Spirit in your heart that you
are a child of God? What about the social test? Do you love people
unconditionally? Have you attached strings to your love? Are you a secret
Christian? Do you live a double life? When you are with Christians you act like
a Christian but when you are with unbelievers there is no difference between
you and them.
IV.
ABIDING IN LOVE V. 16
John
says we have come to know and still know; we have come to believe and still
believe the love, which God has for us. The knowledge and the faith are both
lasting experiences. It is one thing to know and believe the love that God has
for us, it is another to learn to love and to abide in love ourselves. In other
words, the love that is eternally in God and was historically manifested in
Christ is to come to fruition in us. The only way you and I can love as the
only way to believe (v. 15) is by dwelling or abiding in God and God in us. It
is the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit that makes us the children of
God. “The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of
God” (Romans 8:16). The
Holy Spirit enables you and I to believe and to love others. Faith and love are
the fruit of the indwelling Spirit. Faith and love are the evidence of the
Spirit. Therefore, if you abide in love it is the evidence that God dwells in
you. That is why Jesus sums up the Ten Commandments in love. Jesus also said
that it is through our love for one another that the world will truly know that
we are the children of God (John 13:34-35).
A
major part of the reason the common people were attracted to Jesus was His
love. The world is dying for genuine love. If you and I would demonstrate
unconditional love, we can gain an entrance into people’s life. When you show
true love to people they begin to open up to you, because they feel at home
with you. Without the Holy Spirit your mind is dark and your heart is cold. Only
the Holy Spirit can enlighten your mind to believe in Jesus and warm your heart
to love God and each other. So believing and loving are evidence that His
Spirit is at work in you. So as a Christian you cannot have a cold heart. You
are to be warm and affectionate. Christians are like magnets; we are to attract
people to Christ. Only genuine Christians can truly love unconditionally.
A
soldier who went to war called his mother and said, mom can I come home? Is
there a room in the house for me, the mother responded, “sure there is room for
you so please come home.” The soldier said, "Could I bring a friend who
has lost an eye, and a leg?" Is there a room for him? The mother replied,
well, you can bring him to stay for a while, but later he must find a place to
stay. The son who was a soldier hanged up the phone and took his own life. He
was the one who had lost an eye and a leg. He knew his mother would not receive
him back for what had happened to him. Do you love people unconditionally?
Think and pray about it.